Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Love Yourself...don't be a HATER

In any job that one has throughout life there always seems to be a pattern:

-New person comes and setteles in
-Meet and Greet with everyone
-Show what they can achieve
-Haters get riled up
-Haters make up lies to make themselves feel better
-New person is expected to take it and not pay any attention

I have to say in my experience, every single job I've partaken in has always had "Haters", the funny and unfortunate thing is that they are usually in the 40's (sad but true). Then the "He Said, She Said" thing comes up and the drama unfolds. So my question is to ALL the haters:

Does this really make you feel that much better in life? You are so bored that your mind needs to spread lies to others to make you smile? (If you've answered YES, WOW!!!!)

I will NEVER understand the mind of a person who needs to make others feel like they should be beneath their own integrity. So what if there are people out there who make the world a better place..So what if your world is crumbling and their world is in good is about finding yourself withing your own struggle, about learning and surviving and making sure we ALL climb out that ladder together. Clearly though, we NEED haters to learn what our own capabilities are.

I've also seen that the longer the "He Said, She Said" game is being played, the more joy the haters get from it. As I myself have been a survivor from being trashed by haters in all aspects of life, here is my direct message to all of you PAST, PRESENT and FUTURE haters:

It is a real shame that you have to look down upon yourself to make others fear you. Fear is not something I will ever have of you simply for the fact that you are wasting nothing but precious time out of your own life just to get to me. They say, and I've seen it first hand, that whatever energy you out out there in the world is exactly what you will get back in return, and then some. I simply pray for your rock solid hearts and hope that one day you can change your ways for the sake of those who actually take the time to love you. Keep spreading lies as if they were stones and you'll get them right back, they may bruise me, but in the end, they will break you. I hope you learn to LOVE and RESPECT yourself in the end...much LOVE on your journey and hope you find the self worth you seem to have lost somewhere along the way.

This Busy Little Queen Says....

Love Yourself!


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  2. "When it comes down to it, I let them think what they want. If they care enough to bother with what I do, then I'm already better than them."
    — Marilyn Monroe


    <3 barbie/dolly parton (well when i had blond hair, I need a new nickname now)